Saturday, February 03, 2007

What Your Dreams Mean


ABC News ran a brief article on the meaning of dreams, especially recurring dreams. While there is nothing extremely noteworthy about the article, it is somewhat refreshing to see a mainstream article on dreams that doesn't reduce dreaming to the random firing of neurons or some such crap.

Here is most of the text:

They can be startlingly vivid and real, or fragmented and bizarre.

Whatever form they take, dreams can reveal a lot about what a person really thinks.

"Dreams give us an X-ray of our unconscious. They show us, particularly when we're at life's passages or turning points, what's going on inside, what we're having trouble coping with," said Alan Siegel, a professor at the University of California at Berkeley who has studied dreams for nearly 30 years.

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Disturbing dreams often occur around major life events: moves, marriage, divorce, the death of a loved one or pressure at work.

Siegel believes stressful or upsetting dreams can be a sign of what's buried deep inside the mind.

"Dreams are important to survival. They are crucial to the balance of our psyche. … They help us work out conflicts that we're having every single day," he said. "They go to the cutting edge of what's stressful, what's bothering us and what we're working out in our lives."

Siegel said that dreams can provide guidance if people understand them. Psychologists recommend recording dreams in a journal so that they can be examined for clues later.

"The two best techniques are to focus on the emotion in the dream, and that's often the most important part, and just ask yourself what in my waking life feels like this," said Deirdre Barrett, an assistant professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School.

Barrett also recommends trying to connect details in the dreams to one another.

"You can just go through and associate detail to detail," she said. "This particular dark figure in the dream, did they look like anyone I've seen recently?"

Siegel and Barrett explained the meaning behind common dreams.

Being Stuck or Paralyzed

"This dream usually has to do with some form of emotional paralysis," Siegel said. "You're stuck in some way in your life and the dream is reflecting that in a metaphor."

Being Naked or Dressed Inappropriately

"These dreams seem to crop up when people are feeling some kind of social inadequacy," Barrett said.

Losing Teeth

"[This could be] a feeling of rejection, being fired, things not working out with a friend or colleague," Siegel said. "When you experience emotional or physical loss, that's when you tend to have the teeth falling out dream."

Nightmares

Nightmares often reflect an especially intense emotion or unresolved conflict. "The stronger the emotion in the dream, whether it's pleasure or fear, the more likely the dream is important," Barrett said.

The dime-store interpretation isn't really very useful for anyone who has worked with dreams, but it might inspire some people to begin paying more attention to their dreams. At the end of the article they provide a link to The International Association for the Study of Dreams.

Dreams can be a crucial form of shadow work for many of us. Much of what happens in dreams is generally below the threshold of consciousness, so bringing the dream material into the light of day can help us work out some of the material in shadow that is seeking our attention.

If you're new to dream work, you can find a great collection of links representing a variety of approaches at Dream Gate's Dream Library.


3 comments:

DreamsCoaching.com said...

William,
Thank you for posting the recent ABC News article on dreams to your BLOG.

William, I agree with your comments, and I would like to add that Siegel's and Barrett's "dime store" approach to dream interpretation would be of little help to most dreamers because Siegel would have people believing, "Oh Great I had a stressful or disturbing dreams so that must mean that I have something buried deep inside my mind." which could cause dreamers to unnecessary worry. What Siegel and Barrett wrote about the meanings for common dreams is not always true.

Siegel has studied dreams for 30 years, yet fails to tell people that dreams can be a path for self-discovery, soul travel, or simply our Dreaming Mind expressing its creativity. Dream meanings are as multi-faceted as diamonds and only the dreamer can know what their dream truly means. To Siegel and Barrett, I say: "Speak for your own dreams!"

WH said...

Thanks for stopping by the Cafe. I agree with you, which is why I posted the link to the Dream Library -- for an alternate viewpoint.

Peace,
Bill

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