Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Speedlinking 4/4/07

Quote of the day:

"A superstition is a premature explanation that overstays its time."
~ Georges Iles

Image of the day
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BODY
~ 4 Days in 15 Minutes: A Summary of the 2007 Health & Fitness Summit by Chris Shugart at T-Nation.
~ How To Maintain Healthy Blood Sugar Levels -- "A recent report linked high blood sugar levels with cancer in women. This highlighted again the problem of high blood sugar levels, even below the level found in diabetes, as they also increase people's chances of getting heart disease and full-blown diabetes."
~ More Muscle, Less Hassle: Build big power with this whole-body, two-dumbbell plan -- These three moves aren't going to make you big, but they're a good basic quick routine when you have no other options.
~ Johns Hopkins Researchers Examine Why People Eat The Foods They Do -- "People purchase foods based on their income level, their belief in a food's health benefit and cost. However, ethnicity and gender also impact people's food choices, according to researchers at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health."
~ A New Walking Study Encourages Overweight Americans To Step Up To Better Health -- "What if someone told you, you could walk your way to better health? With 65 percent of American adults considered to be overweight or obese, walking may be one way to battle the bulge. However, if you lack motivation, a prescription to walk may be just what the doctor ordered."
~ Hormone therapy safe for younger women -- "Younger women may be able to safely take hormone replacement therapy to treat menopause symptoms based on a new analysis of a big U.S. study that had raised alarms about health risks and driven down sales of treatment drugs, according to a report released on Tuesday."
~ Drug That Mimics 'good' Cholesterol Has Mixed Effect On Coronary Atherosclerosis -- Diet and exercise are still the best options.
~ Eggs will raise your cholesterol, and other myths -- "Avoid eggs. Drink 8 glasses of water a day. Eating carbs will make you fat. Nutritional advice such as this has been touted for years -- but is it accurate?" This article is a step in the right direction, but still wrong. I agree that eggs are harmless. However, changing and reducing the kinds of carbs we eat willl help us lose weight and keep it off. And the more water you drink, the less your body holds and the easier it flushes toxins. And we do need to supplement with vitamins because the food we eat in nutritionally depleted.
~ 'Functional Foods': Healthy or Hype? -- "The line between the supermarket and drug store keeps getting fuzzier. Television commercials for Danone's "Activia" line of yogurts claim it's just the thing for folks struggling with what gastroenterologists call "slow transit time." Switch the channel, and ads for sterol-enriched Becel margarine trumpet its cholesterol-lowering goodness."


PSYCHE
~ Are Antidepressants Ever Necessary? -- "Interesting how the evidence is growing that antidepressants provide no meaningful benefit, particularly in light of a study released today that argues the incidence of depression may NOT be as common as you have been led to believe." I would seriously disagree with the assessment that antidepressants don't help.
~ Criteria for depression are too broad -- "Up to 25 percent of people in whom psychiatrists would currently diagnose depression may only be reacting normally to stressful events such as a divorce or losing a job, according to a new analysis that reexamined how the standard diagnostic criteria are used." With this, however, I am in full agreement.
~ COMMENT: It's interesting how someone with an agenda (Dr. Mercola) can use a fairly even-handed study to push his point of view.
~ Self-regulation Abilities, Beyond Intelligence, Play Major Role In Early Achievement -- "Although intelligence is generally thought to play a key role in children's early academic achievement, aspects of children's self-regulation abilities-including the ability to alternately shift and focus attention and to inhibit impulsive responding--are uniquely related to early academic success and account for greater variation in early academic progress than do measures of intelligence."
~ One reason the movie's never as good as the book [Cognitive Daily] -- "It makes some sense: if we've gone to the trouble of creating a visual environment, why not use the part of our mind that's designed to handle visual information -- the visual perception system itself? Wouldn't it be more convenient to do it that way instead of clumsily describing visual representations using words?"
~ A Neural FPGA? Dynamic Task-Relevant Code in Prefrontal Cortex [Developing Intelligence] -- "How does the brain exert flexible control over behavior? One idea is that high-level areas of the brain self-organize representations that lead to reward in a certain task, in a sense by "programming" or "executing" a pattern of activity that controls activity in more posterior and domain-specific regions (i.e., sensory or motor cortex)."
~ Exercise boosts mind, brain and mood -- Mind Hacks reviews the info in the new issue of Newsweek on exercise and the brain.
~ School Achievement, Perceptions Of Ability And Interest Change As Children Age -- "Children in early grades may like a subject in which they don't feel very competent, or they may feel competent in a subject in spite of poor grades. But by the end of high school, children generally feel most interested in subjects in which they feel they are the strongest.Those are the findings of a new study published in the March-April 2007 issue of the journal Child Development."
~ How we remember each other -- "Researchers at McGill University`s Douglas Mental Health University Institute, in collaboration with a French team at the University of Paris, have used magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) to identify the part of the brain that stores our memories of meetings, parties, arguments, fun and the myriad other social interactions that color our daily lives."


CULTURE
~ Bush plays chicken with Congress -- "George W. Bush faces a real predicament over the congressional challenges to the war in Iraq, and it is one entirely of his own making."
~ McCain Lags in Early Money -- "With Rudy and Romney outpacing him in fundraising, the onetime G.O.P. front-runner now faces the first crucial test of his young campaign." The Iraqis don't like him either: McCain Visit Angers Iraqis. But wait, there's more bad news for McCain . . .
~ Kerry: McCain Approached Me About Being on Dem Ticket in 2004 -- "Building on the "McCain approached Tom Daschle to inquire about leaving the GOP" story, John Kerry now says that McCain's people approached his campaign about being the vice president on Kerry's 2004 ticket. If that's true, wow. We still don't have an explanation from McCain on all this, just a simple denial that none of it is true."
~ John Paul II: How Fast to Sainthood? -- "All is relative in the Vatican, and Benedict XVI has actually slowed down the policy on canonization. But the cause of the last pope may mean a (relatively) speedy ascent."
~ Romney Jumps To GOP Fundraising Lead -- With less than 3% support? Strange, that.
~ Where does all that campaign money go? -- "One way to think of the $26 million Sen. Hillary Clinton's campaign raised in the first three months of 2007 is as insurance against any mishap that might strike next winter when the presidential contest begins with the Iowa caucuses."
~ ABC News' bizarre "scoop" on Iran's nuclear program -- Glenn Greenwald wonders "How did ABC's hysteria-producing article make it past a single editor?"
~ Gonzales the Cipher -- "Sometimes, as often seems true with Gonzales, the details eluded him. Clearly, those details could have made the difference between life and death -- or, given the realities of the Texas system, death and a remote chance of a reprieve. But since Bush was not likely to temporarily block any execution or even to raise his voice in mild objection to a particularly heinous railroading, Gonzales kept his death penalty memos short and to the point. Almost always, the point was that the execution should proceed."
~ MySpace plans virtual US presidential primary vote -- "MySpace announced Tuesday it will hold the first virtual US presidential primary election at its youth-oriented social networking website."


HABITATS/TECHNOLOGY
~ Forecasters Call For Nasty Hurricane Season -- Again -- "Here's the good news, if you can call it that: This year's hurricane season isn't going to be as bad as 2005, when Hurricane Katrina wiped out New Orleans."
~ What if coal is running out too? -- "Virtually everyone involved in energy discussions takes for granted that there's plenty of coal waiting to be burnt. The typical claim is that the U.S. has "200 years" worth of domestic energy in its coal reserves."
~ How did life on Earth originate? -- "Did life arrive from space? Rather than developing here, could the first life forms have been catapulted to Earth on a chunk of rock from outer space? Investigations show that microbes are capable of surviving just such a journey."
~ Weighing the financial risks of nuclear power -- "Enticed by the gleam of government subsidies, many companies are rushing to invest in nuclear power, expecting that new technology and safer reactors will make them as good an investment as other types of power plants." Dumbasses.
~ Controversial Seal Hunt Delayed 2nd Year Due to Ice Breakup -- "Thin ice has again pushed back the start of Canada's annual harp seal hunt while causing thousands of seal pups to drown." Looks like global warming is good for seals.
~ Hubble Captures Dazzling Galaxy -- "The barred spiral galaxy features clusters of young blue stars."


~ NASA: Arctic Meltdown Threatens Ice Cap's Stability -- "Perennial sea ice in the Arctic is melting faster each summer than it can be replaced during winter, a new study confirms."
~ Power and Sexual Harassment: Men and Women See Things Differently -- "In the hands of the wrong person, power can be dangerous. That's especially the case in the workplace, where the abuse of power can lead to sexual harassment."


INTEGRAL/BUDDHISM
~ John Craig, of Craig Photography, has opened an online retail site for his fine photos. Check it out.
~ The Wilderness vs The City = Sacred vs Profane? -- "The bastardization and idealization of the wilderness is invisible to most people, I think. It certainly was invisible to me until recently, and this excerpt really crystallized it."
~ Relationship Intelligence from Gary at Integral in Seattle. See also: 3 Stages of Sexual Relationship.
~ Altitude revisited from Ed at Open Integral.
~ ebuddha posts a link to a discussion of integral relationship over at the I-I: An Integral Institute Thread on Integral Relationships.
~ Getting Hooked on the Present Moment -- Buddhist Geeks interview urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/leighbrasington.com');">Leigh Brasington.


Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Daily Om: Clearing Your Mind


I know a lot of people who have a hard time falling asleep at night. The day's events, stresses, and tomorrow's responsibilities play and replay, keeping us awake, making us anxious. I have been one of these people for most of my life.

Today's Daily Om offers some useful advice on how to overcome this brain pattern, which really operates like a habit. We get into the habit of stressing ourselves, so we need to unlearn the habit and replace it with a healthier one, such as clearing the mind in the evening.
Allowing Spirit In
Clearing Your Mind

After a full day out in the world, stories, words, images, and songs from any number of sources continue to play in our heads hours after we encounter them. Even as we lie in bed, in the quiet dark, our minds continue noisily processing all the input from our day. This can leave us feeling unsettled and harassed. It also makes it difficult to take in any new information or inspiration. Like a cluttered house that needs to be cleared if it is to have room for movement and new life, our minds need clearing if they are to be open to new information, ideas, and inspiration.

Too often, the activities we choose to help us relax only add to the clutter. Watching television, seeing a movie, reading a book, or talking to a friend all involve taking in more information. In order to really clear our minds, we need a break from mental stimulation. Activities like yoga, dancing, or taking a long walk help to draw our attention to our bodies, slowing our mental activity enough that our minds begin to settle. Deep breathing is an even simpler way to draw attention away from our mental activities. Once we are mentally relaxed, we can begin the process of clearing our minds. Most of us instinctively know what allows our minds to relax and release any unnecessary clutter. It may be meditation or time spent staring at the stars. Whatever it is, these exercises feel like a cool, cleansing bath for the brain and leave our minds feeling clear and open.

Setting aside time to clear our minds once a day creates a ritual that becomes second nature over time. Our minds will begin to settle with less effort the more we practice. Ultimately, the practice of clearing our minds allows us to be increasingly more open so that we can perceive the world as the fresh offering it is, free of yesterday's mental clutter.

What Women Wish Men Knew

Men's Health claims to have posted 50 things that women wish men knew. It's an interesting list from a hetero, shallow, and somewhat narcissistic point of view.

So, I'm curious if any female readers out there would like to say anything about this list. Please share your thoughts in the comments, and be anonymous if your prefer.
50 Things She Wishes You Knew
Universal truths that all men should--but don't--understand

1. Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count.
2. Real men drive stick shift.
3. I will leave if you lie.
4. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).
5. I'm convinced I'm pregnant and obsess about it for a minimum of 24 to 48 hours before my period, even when I have no rational reason to think so.
6. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.
7. "Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.
8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.
9. I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.
10. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail from you.

11. I expect you to call me.
12. Only rock stars are allowed to wear leather pants.
13. I'm scared of losing my independence.
14. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.
15. Oral sex is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free card. Manolo Blahnik shoes also do the trick.
16. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.)
17. If I'm not having sex with you, I'm... a. ...having a fat day. b. ...not feeling "connected" to you. c. ...blackmailing you to get something I want.
18. Shoes determine whether you're fashionable or not.
19. I own a Debbie Gibson CD, and I'm not afraid to use it.
20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
22. You look hot in hooded clothing items.
23. You should never tell me what to do.
24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.
25. My breasts love much licking and sucking.
26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.
27. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.
28. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.
29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.
30. I want to be Madonna.

31. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.
32. I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.
33. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.
34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.
35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.
36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this.
37. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking....
38. Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times.
39. I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.
40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points.

41. I love it when you're sweaty.
42. It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.
43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.
44. I like porn.
45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.
46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.
47. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...
48. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.
49. I remember everything about our relationship.
50. You should know all this and more with-out my telling you.

The Independent Republic of Vermont

Vermont has always been an enigma as a state in the union. Like New Hampshire, Vermont still uses the town meeting to legislate. Unlike any other state, Vermont was once an independent republic, completely self-sufficient. Over the last two decades, a lot of Vermont citizens have been feeling that it is time to secede from the Union and be an independent republic again.

I'm pretty sure it will never happen. But in becoming more vocal about their issues with the federal government, secessionists can bring attention to the abuses of power that Washington simply takes as its right.

From AlterNet:

Vermont seceded from the British Empire in 1777 and stood free for 14 years, until 1791. Its constitution -- which preceded the U.S. Constitution by more than a decade -- was the first to prohibit slavery in the New World and to guarantee universal manhood suffrage. Vermont issued its own currency, ran its own postal service, developed its own foreign relations, grew its own food, made its own roads and paid for its own militia. No other state, not even Texas, governed itself more thoroughly or longer before giving up its nationhood and joining the Union.

But the seeds of disunion have been growing since the beginning. Vermont more or less sat out the War of 1812, and its governor ordered troops fighting the British to disengage and come home. Vermont fought the Civil War primarily to end slavery; Abraham Lincoln did so primarily to save the Union. Vermont's record on the slavery issue was so strong that Georgia's legislature resolved that a ditch be dug around the "pestiferous" state and it be floated out to sea.

After the Great Flood of 1927, the worst natural disaster in the state's history, President Calvin Coolidge (a Vermonter) offered help. Vermont's governor replied, "Vermont will take care of its own." In 1936, town meetings rejected a huge federal highway referendum that would have blacktopped the Green Mountain crest line from Massachusetts to Canada.

Nor did Vermont sign on when imperial Washington demanded that the state raise its drinking age from 18 to 21 in 1985. The federal government thereupon resorted to its favored tactic, blackmail. Raise your drinking age, said Ronald Reagan, or we'll take away the money you need to keep the interstates paved. Vermont took its case for state control to the Supreme Court -- and lost.

It's quite simple. The United States has destroyed the 10th Amendment, which says that "powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people."

The present movement for secession has been gathering steam for a decade and a half. In preparation for Vermont's bicentennial in 1991, public debates -- moderated by then-Lt. Gov. Howard Dean -- were held in seven towns before crowds that averaged 230 citizens. At the end of each, Dean asked all those in favor of Vermont's seceding from the Union to stand and be counted. In town after town, solid majorities stood. The final count: 999 (62 percent) for secession and 608 opposed.

In early 2003, transplanted Southerner and retired Duke University economics professor Thomas Naylor gave a speech at Johnson State College opposing the Iraq war. When he pitched the idea of secession to the crowd, he saw many eyes "light up," he said. Later that year, he and several others started a loosely organized movement (now a think tank) called the Second Vermont Republic, which has an independent quarterly journal, Vermont Commons, and a Web site.

In October 2005, about 300 Vermonters attended a statewide convention on the question of secession. Six months later, the annual Vermont Poll of the University of Vermont's Center for Rural Studies found that about 8 percent of respondents replied "yes" to peaceful secession, arguably making Vermont foremost among the many states with secessionist movements (including Alaska, California, Hawaii, New Hampshire, South Carolina and Texas).

We secessionists believe that the 350-year swing of history's pendulum toward large, centralized imperial states is once again reversing itself.

Read the whole article.


Amazing Photos: Milk & Coffee

I found these images through Digg, which took me to You Say Too. No photographer is credited with the images, so I have no idea who is responsible for these amazing photos.

Milk, meet coffee. Coffee, this is my friend milk.








There are more images at You Say Too.


Louis Armstrong & Johnny Cash Play the Blues

A beautiful musical moment, from the Johnny Cash Show, October 28, 1970. They play an old Jimmie Rogers song ("Blue Yodel") that Armstrong played on back in his youth.


Via: VideoSift


Speedlinking 4/3/07

Quote of the day:

"I am returning this otherwise good typing paper to you because someone has printed gibberish all over it and put your name at the top."
~ An English Professor

Image of the day (Tristan Campbell):


BODY
~ Strength Exercises That Work Your Core -- "Real "core" training - not that Bosu Ball crap - with cool videos. What else do ya' need?"
~ Trigger Points: What They Are, What They Mean -- "When muscles and other soft-tissues such as tendons and ligaments are placed under increased stress due to overuse, postural strain, etc., they have a tendency to develop localized areas which become hyper-sensitive, irritated and painful. Many of these localized areas are known as trigger points (TP’s). Trigger points have been shown by researchers to be the cause of much of the pain people feel on a day to day basis."
~ Perfecting the Plank -- An article on one of the most beneficial core exercises.
~ Health: Polyphenols On A Plate -- "Polyphenols have much better antioxidant properties than vitamins, and have been the object of growing interest on the part of nutritionists, epidemiologists, agrifood firms and consumers over the past decade or so. Their main advantage is that they protect against numerous diseases such as cancer or cardiovascular disease. In particular, they help fight the formation of free radicals in the human body and thus slow cell ageing."
~ Omega-3 Fatty Acids Affect Risk Of Depression, Inflammation -- "A new study suggests that people whose diets contain dramatically more of one kind of polyunsaturated fatty acid than another may be at greater risk for both clinical depression and certain inflammatory diseases. The report, published online this week in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine, suggests that we need to balance out our intake of omega-6 and omega-3 fatty acids." I've been saying this for years.
~ Moderate alcohol intake may boost aneurysm risk -- "Drinking alcohol at moderate levels — two or more drinks per day — appears to be a risk factor for abdominal aortic aneurysm in men, researchers found."
~ One In Five Americans Are Either At High Risk For Developing Type 2 Diabetes Or Are Unaware That They Already Have Diabetes -- "Diabetes has become the greatest public health crisis of the next quarter century. To address the burden of this disease, the American Diabetes Association (ADA) is issuing an urgent call-to-action for Americans to find out their risk for type 2 diabetes during the 19th annual American Diabetes Alert® Day. More than six million Americans have diabetes, but don't even know it."
~ Less Sleep May Lower Testosterone -- "Men's testosterone levels typically decline with age, and in some men that drop in male hormones can lead to a lack of energy or libido as well as an increased risk of falls with broken bones." Crap, I need to get more sleep.
~ Sleep Disturbance Increases Spontaneous Pain In Women -- "Sleep continuity disturbance impairs endogenous pain-inhibitory function and increases spontaneous pain in women. This supports a possible pathophysiologic role of sleep disturbance in chronic pain, according to a study published in the April 1st issue of the journal SLEEP."
~ Pregnancy weight can lead to fat toddlers -- "The standard advice for how much weight a woman should gain during pregnancy may need to changed, concludes a rigorous and provocative study suggesting that even accepted weight gains may raise the risk of having an overweight toddler." Pregnant women who train with me and adhere to my diet advice only gain 25-30 pounds -- and are back to pre-pregnancy weight in less than a month.


PSYCHE
~ The Mystery of Consciousness -- An essay/review on the new book by Nicholas Humphrey, Seeing Red: A Study in Consciousness.
~ Women Of All Sizes Feel Badly About Their Bodies After Seeing Models -- "The rail-thin blonde bombshell on the cover of a magazine makes all women feel badly about their own bodies despite the size, shape, height or age of the viewers."
~ Seven Signs of Relationship (Dis)Satisfaction -- "Unlike 'love' and 'commitment', the words 'relationship satisfaction' are unlikely to strike fear into the heart of the unreconstructed man (or reconstructed woman). But once a relationship has become long-term, although we still talk about love and commitment, in some ways it's satisfaction that comes to the forefront."
~ Memory Suppression? How Inhibition May Allow for Flexible Control [Developing Intelligence] -- "Everyone does something they later regret. Can you ever intentionally forget that you did it? The idea of memory repression has rarely been considered within scientific psychology, but the processes involved in intentional forgetting (also covered last week) are the focus of a recent article by Michael Anderson."
~ Survival of the Steadiest -- "There is broad consensus today that personality is an amalgam of traits called the “Big Five”: Extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability, and openness to experience. Each of these broad measures can be broken down into smaller ones, but in general this taxonomy appears to take in most of what we think of as personhood. When you think of someone as basically “steady” or “flaky” or “gloomy” or “daring,” what you’re really doing is unconsciously taking a measure of these five traits and crunching them together."
~ Stolen Kisses -- "According to one study, up to 20 percent of long-term relationships begin when one or both partners are involved with others. Evolutionary psychologists call this "mate poaching." This figure holds steady across age groups and among couples who are married, living together or dating, according to psychologists who polled some 16,000 individuals in 53 countries as part of the International Sexuality Description Project." Hmmmm . . . .
~ Managing Your Moods Can Benefit Your Health -- "Learning how to deal with negative emotions and create positive ones may help you avoid many health problems. Your emotions may originate in your brain, but they don't confine themselves to your mind. They express themselves in your body as well in your heartbeat, your respiratory rate, your blood pressure and many other physical functions.Usually, strong emotions come and go, and normal physiological equilibrium is restored."
~ What is the relation between emotion and consciousness? -- "What is the relation between emotion and consciousness? In their recent paper in TRENDS in Cognitive Sciences, Tsuchiya and Adolphs review recent studies that address this question. Focusing on domains where emotion and consciousness overlap and interact, Tsuchiya and Adolphs suggest that each (emotion and consciousness) is necessary for aspects of the other."


CULTURE
~ Up to 30 percent of workers bullied -- "The office bully has an array of weapons at his disposal, ranging from the subtle silent treatment to not-so-subtle verbal ridicule, the effects of which can ripple through the workplace."
~ The ethnobiology of the Haitian zombi -- Finally, a user's guide to zombification.
~ Gospel according to Judas -- "The Gospel of John says that he told Judas to go out and do what he had to do, which Jesus knew was to betray him. So the Gospel of Judas just takes the suggestion one step further. Jesus not only knew what was going to happen but initiated the action." An interview with Elaine Pagels about her new book on the Gospel of Judas. For an attempted, but ignorant refutation of Pagels, see Hiding from religious reality [Pharyngula].
~ Kissinger Declares Defeat In Iraq -- "AP reports: "A 'military victory' in the sense of total control over the whole territory, imposed on the entire population, is not possible," Kissinger told The Associated Press in Tokyo, where he received an honorary degree from Waseda University. He also said the other thing Bush really really really just doesn't want to hear. Kissinger said the best way forward is to reconcile the differences between Iraq's warring sects with help from other countries."
~ Bangkok vice: Buddhas, boxers, and bar girls -- "In the beginning there was Jon Stewart irony, and it was good. And then there was Steven Colbert meta-irony, and it was better. But then I discovered meta-meta-irony, and it scared me straight." A funny travel piece.
~ Back From the Wilderness, Left-Leaning Thinkers Are Having Their Day -- "Democratic policy wonks just can't seem to publish fast enough these days. Early this year, the Economic Policy Institute, a left-leaning think tank, put out its Agenda for Shared Prosperity, a broad economics blueprint developed by some 50 economists that tackles everything from healthcare to retirement security to trade."
~ Supreme Court Denies Detainee Habeas Cases... For Now -- "The Supreme Court on Monday denied review in two new Guantanamo detainee cases. Three Justices dissented, and two others wrote separately about the denial. Had any combination of four of those Justices voted for review, of course, the cases would have been granted."
~ Random Knowledge: Twinkies! -- "Twinkies are as amazingly good as they are disgusting. But do you know why?"
~ Norman Solomon: While McCain Walks in McNamara's Footsteps -- "Awakening from a 40-year nap, an observer might wonder how much has changed since the last war that the United States stumbled over because it could not win."


HABITATS/TECHNOLOGY
~ Online TV: Still Finding Its Way -- "Online TV offers the ultimate in a la carte programming-entertainment slices instead of cable and satellite bundles. But watching it on the living room set means bridging the gap between the Internet, with its do-everything PCs that demand close attention, and television, which does one thing well while we relax."
~ Chinese discovery casts doubt on 'Out of Africa' theory: study -- "The ancient remains of an early modern human found in Beijing suggests the "Out of Africa" theory of the dispersal of humans may be more complex than first thought, a study released Monday said."
~ Why the Rich Get Richer -- "A new theory shows how wealth, in different forms, can stick to some but not to others. The findings have implications ranging from the design of the Internet to economics."
~ Engineers create 'optical cloaking' design for invisibility -- "Researchers using nanotechnology have taken a step toward creating an 'optical cloaking' device that could render objects invisible by guiding light around anything placed inside this 'cloak.'"
~ Supreme Court Rebukes Bush on Carbon Dioxide Policy -- "The U.S. Supreme Court ordered the federal government on Monday to take a fresh look at regulating carbon dioxide emissions from cars, a rebuke to Bush administration policy on global warming."
~ 'Self-healing' house in Greece will dare to defy nature -- "A high-tech villa designed to resist earthquakes by ‘self-healing` cracks in its own walls and monitoring vibrations through an intelligent sensor network will be built on a Greek mountainside."
~ Week in Photos: Living Goddess, Albino Wallaby, Japan Earthquake, More -- National Geographic -- "This week: Nepal's "living goddess," India's Muslims flee ethnic violence, busload of iguanas seized, and more."
~ Houses of the Future Could Be Made from Trash -- "New building blocks made of waste products could revolutionize home and office construction."


INTEGRAL/BUDDHIST
~ More on Integral Relationship -- Gary at Integral in Seattle responds to ebuddha's response to me.
~ knowing and KNOWING from Brad at Hardcore Zen.
~ Wu Tsu's Buffalo -- From Lin Jensen at Tricycle -- "Zen master Wu-tsu once presented his students with an odd and troubling koan about a buffalo passing through a window. Wu-tsu said, “It is like a buffalo that passes through a latticed window. Its head, horn, and four legs all pass through. Why can’t its tail pass through as well?” The image is one of an unsuccessful attempt to pass from one circumstance to another."
~ Interfaith Blog Event #5: The Role of Forgiveness -- Mike's essay at Unknowing Mind.
~ Subtle Energies Accessible to Complex Physical Structures -- elamb at Source of Miracles looks at Wilber's theory of subtle energies.
~ Self-Help Junkies -- Steve Pavlina disses the self-help crowd, but offers an almost integral selection of areas to focus on personal growth.


Monday, April 02, 2007

On Relationships -- Integral and Otherwise

Last week I posted a series of articles from Psychology Today on the topic of relationships. I took issue with one of the articles because it advocated a devotion to the relationship that I felt could trap people in a situation that is not working.

Ebuddha, over at Integral Practice, posted a response to my post. He took issue with my position.
How much is longing for the "ideal", for the "integral", a function of narcissism, and how much is it a function of creating a better version of relationship?

As Bill points out, if one buys into the "practical" version too much - and as I stated - you can be in a very unhappy relationship, for years on end.

The other side of the danger, is that you ARE "seeking an unobtainable illusion".

My first round of theorizing (and again, I can easily be wrong) is that Bill is wrong here, based on the following data:

a. Based on the research, more people ARE becoming more narcissistic - look at latest C4 post.
b. Most people, who last a long time in relationship, do tend to accept the relationship "as it is", within the boundaries described by the Great Expectations article.
c. Most self-reporting on successful relationships describe coming back to appreciating the qualities of relating, and human-ness, not some extra-ordinariness.
He concludes by stating that integral relationship must be a step beyond a successful relationship. With this, I am in full agreement.

However, I disagree -- at least in my own life -- that seeking an "integral" relationship is a function of narcissism. Rather, I think the main issue for me has been a reliance on a model -- confusing the map with the territory -- rather than attending to the relationship itself.

From my experience, we need to develop a healthy relationship -- one with compassion, communication, and respect -- before we can even entertain the ideal of an integral relationship.

Theorizing about relationships is useful and valuable. But large ideals and archetypes for what a relationship can be (the "unobtainable ideal" that ebuddha mentions) really do not address the reality of living in relationship with another person. I have made the mistake of relying on a model instead of being present to the relationship itself. In this sense, if one falls into that trap as I did, the relationship is doomed. If both partners are working from ideals and not allowing for the presence of the other person as s/he is, then the whole thing will implode at some point.

I no longer hold the ideal of an integral relationship. If, looking back from my rocking chair on the porch as I sip lemonade in my old age, I can say that I lived in an integral relationship, then great. But right now all that matters to me is honoring and loving the person now in my life.

In terms of finding a place where theory meets practice, I think the bottom line is that we have to examine and expose the shadow elements that each person brings to the relationship. From a subpersonality approach, we attract partners who embody non-integrated elements (disowned selves, among other things) of our own shadows. Paying attention to that and working to identify and integrate those shadow pieces is the most important work we can do to ensure a healthy relationship.

The final place that I disagree with ebuddha is with the comment he left at the original post:
So what is it? What is the extra that you are looking for? How do you distinguish the "extra" from the "ideal"?
Actually, it's not so much that I disagree. The final article that ebuddha quotes from had mentioned that people are seeking "something more" from relationships now that previous generations were not seeking. The article seemed to dismiss this quest as not very productive in the relationship.

My position is that we are seeking something more. As we evolve (many of us moving into the "sensitive self" in some areas of our lives, especially in relationships), we must redefine what a relationship can be. It no longer satisfies many people to "marry well," meaning to marry someone who reflects well on us and can provide a stable family life. These are egoic concerns -- useful and valuable in some ways, but no longer totally satisfying for many people.

The something more that we seek is compassion and empathy, among other things. We no longer simply want to meet our physical needs (home, children, stability, and so on). I think Maslow is instructive here:


If we use this model for relationships, we have in the past been satisfied with having our needs in the first three levels met. This was considered a happy and healthy relationship. For many people, it still is.

More and more of us, however, want to meet the next two levels through our relationships. This is the "extra" or "something more" to which I am referring, at least in part (but for the purposes of this discussion, this model will suffice). We want a partner with whom we can work (and who will support us) in attaining these higher developmental needs -- and if they are not met or we do not feel supported in seeking these things, at least in part, we will probably be unhappy in the relationship.

At the top of the pyramid (not shown in the diagram) Maslow placed the need for self-transcendence. If there is anything integral in his model, it is this. He had originally theorized that only self-actualized people had these "peak experiences." But he later conceded that anyone could achieve these states. And this is the distinction he failed to make -- some few people achieve self-actualization as a stage of development, meaning that they are largely centered in this level of development. The rest of us, however, and the majority of us for that matter, are capable of having these experiences as a state experience no matter what stage we are at developmentally.

I think another aspect of the "something more" is the innate need for self-transcendence that Maslow describes. We may never get to that level developmentally, but we can have state experiences of this reality through a variety of means, including intimate relationship. The most obvious way to do so, and the one that many people focus on, is through sexual sharing. In the throes of passion we can transcend our little egos as we connect with our partners.

However, I think it is a mistake to see this as the only way. I believe that any time we place our partner's needs and happiness above our own (assuming this in no way harms us emotionally or spiritually), we can transcend our little egos and achieve what Maslow described as self-transcendence. We may not even notice this as it happens.

I don't know if any of this can be defined as an integral relationship -- that is no longer my concern. I also do not think we should rely exclusively on the relationship to meet these higher order needs -- but if the relationship is not supportive of these needs, and one or both partners feel the need to meet these needs, then there will be problems in the relationship. Again, this is the "something more" to which I think the Psychology Today article was referring (and dismissing).

Rather than simply staying in a relationship that does not support us in feeling fulfilled (and recognizing that the relationship can not be held accountable as the only source of meeting those needs), we should be able to want that support from our partners and relationships.

Of course, we have to meet all the lower level needs first -- and we have to have an emotionally healthy and supportive relationship to do so. And clearly, not everyone wants these things from relationship.

Right now, all I care about is meeting my partner where she is, supporting her needs for happiness and safety, and building a loving and compassionate partnership. There's nothing integral about that.


Edward O. Wilson on Death, Free Will, Evolution, Religion...

I've always liked Edward Wilson, even when I don't agree with him. He seems to me to be one of the most thoughtful, even-minded, compassionate advocates for science that we have.

This is a fascinating discussion. He covers evolutionary psychology, religion, god, consciousness, and a whole lot more. One of the interesting statements from him is that religion is an incredibly adaptive human behavior that was undoubtedly part of our evolutionary survival strategies.

I might be wrong, but I think he is working at an integral level with probably no idea who Ken Wilber might be. I take this as proof that -- as important as Wilber has been -- the integral paradigm transcends the Wilberian approach.


Via: VideoSift


Daily Om: Centering And Expressing


Today's Daily Om offers some good advice on how to have quality communication in our relationships.
Centering And Expressing
Communication

When we are in a relationship where we feel listened to and understood, we count ourselves lucky because we know how rare that experience is. We reserve our most intimate selves for the people who, along with us, cocreate an open space where we feel free to express ourselves and listen without judgment. These relationships, which thrive on open communication, can mean the difference between existential loneliness and a deep sense of belonging. We all long to feel heard, understood, and loved, and clear communication makes this possible.

Sometimes problems arise in the process of expressing how we feel, but it is always worth it to do the work. Even in our less intimate relationships, expressing ourselves honestly is essential to our sense of well-being. Whether at home with family or in the outside world, successful communication requires some forethought; otherwise we risk blundering through our relationships like the proverbial bull in a china shop. However, too much forethought can stifle us or cause us to pad our words so extremely that we end up saying nothing at all or confusing the matter further. The good news is that there are many methods that can come to our rescue, from meditation to visualization to journaling.

If the person we need to communicate with is open to sitting in meditation together for a set period of time before speaking, this can be invaluable. When we are calm and centered, we can count on ourselves to speak and respond truthfully. We can also meditate on our own time and then practice what we need to say. A visualization in which we sit with the person and lovingly exchange a few words can also be a great precedent to an actual conversation. If writing comes easily, we can write out what we need to say; it may take several drafts, but we will eventually find the words. The key is to find ways to center ourselves so that we communicate meaningfully, lovingly, and wisely. In this way, we honor our companions and create relationships in which there is a genuine sense of understanding and respect.

Greg Pattillo -- Beatboxing on Flute

I stole this from Esquire -- this guy is awesome.


Click here to view Greg Pattillo's latest, an original creation called "Freedom Jazz Dance".

Greg Pattillo's flute performance better suits the streets than symphony suites. That's why this classically trained musician has taken his talent straight to the people, using YouTube to show off his ability to play flute and beat box simultaneously. His versions of the Super Mario Brothers (shown below), Inspector Gadget and Sesame Street themes have garnered millions of hits on YouTube and turned this New York City street musician into an overnight sensation.

Seattle-bred Pattillo previously worked as a teacher and professional musician in Ohio, while attaining his bachelor’s and master’s degrees in flute performance at the Cleveland Institute of Music. He gave that up four years ago to develop an original style, first playing the streets of San Francisco and later New York. "About two years ago I moved out here and that was when I was finally able to do melody over the beat," says Pattillo. "The first big piece that I figured that out on was Super Mario Brothers."

After posting that initial Mario Bros. clip on YouTube, people began approaching Pattillo as he played to make requests or propose jobs. Once, a photographer offered Pattillo a gig with Bono. He never met the U2 singer, but Pattillo did become a spokesman for Product Red, Bono’s campaign to raise money for AIDS assistance in Africa. Pattillo posed for a Boston billboard and banked $500. "I turned the biggest trick I ever did out there on the street," says Pattillo.

So far Pattillo’s signature sound hasn't amounted to much beside a little pocket change and a lot of recognition. He works full time at the grocery chain Trader Joe's and performs in the subway system during his lunch breaks. Pattillo hopes that one day he can return to the more profitable classical world (he does a mean version of Prokofiev's "Peter and the Wolf", which you can see below), but on his own terms. "Ultimately I would like to see what I'm doing get some kind of institutional cred," says Pattillo. "It would be nice if what I did now other flute players started to pick up."



Satire: Bush Refuses To Set Timetable For Withdrawal Of Head From White House Banister

From The Onion, of course:

Bush Refuses To Set Timetable For Withdrawal Of Head From White House Banister

April 2, 2007 | Issue 43•14

WASHINGTON, DC—Though critics have argued that he does not understand the futility of his current situation, President Bush announced today that he has no plans to remove his head from its current position: wedged painfully between two balusters on a White House staircase.

Enlarge Image Bush Refuses

Bush has refused to budge from his position.

"Setting a timetable for withdrawal of my head would send mixed messages about why I put my head here in the first place," Bush said at a press conference on the Grand Staircase. "I am going to finish what I set out to accomplish here, no matter how unpopular my decision may be, or how much my head hurts while stuck between these immovable stairway posts."

Democrats, emboldened by electoral victories that gave them control of both houses of Congress, are calling for Bush to begin withdrawing his head from the banister immediately.

"Why does the president refuse to pull his head out of that banister?" House Speaker Nancy Pelosi said in a speech yesterday. "Hasn't he had his head in there long enough? We'd all like to know just how the American people are being served by him keeping his head in that banister."

Entering its fifth day, the president's incursion into the banister is now widely considered a quagmire. Bush initially told the nation that he was going to stick his head through the banister in order to secure stockpiles of cashews on the other side. Though intelligence reports cited by the president seemed to indicate the presence of these cashews, a comprehensive probe by White House personnel revealed that no such nuts existed.

"If the president truly believed there were cashews, why didn't he ask a staffer to go around to the other side of the staircase and check for cashews first?" Rep. Jack Murtha (D-PA) said. "Or even just look through the banister before slamming his head in there in such a way that it can't be extricated."

Many Republicans who supported Bush early this week are now publicly criticizing the president for the way he got into the banister.

"I stood by the commander-in-chief's decision to stick his head in this banister from the beginning," Sen. Chuck Hagel (R-NE). "But now I'm beginning to think he may have rushed into this without thinking through all the consequences of his actions."

Voters are also voicing concerns about this latest predicament. Chicago resident Peter Colby, 41, who recently took part in a tour of the White House, said he thought Bush's actions were hurting the country's image abroad.

"It's embarrassing to see the president of the United States with his head stuck in a banister," Colby said. "He just looks stupid."

The few supporters Bush has left are privately concerned that he will go down in history as the president who wedged his head through a banister and refused to take it out despite widespread negative public sentiment and political pressure for him to do so.

For his part, Bush has scoffed at such suggestions and accused his critics of exploiting the issue without providing any viable alternatives.

"I hear a lot of criticism from the other side of the aisle, but what is the Democrat plan for victory here?" Bush said. "Some suggest rapid withdrawal, but that will most likely hurt my ears by bending them the wrong way. Others have suggested turning my head from side to side and slowly working my way out, which we all know is a recipe for failure."

In recent days, the Bush administration has been attempting to sell a new plan based on a strong forward surge.

"The only way for the president to successfully remove himself from this situation is not to pull his head out of the banister, but to push his whole body through," White House Chief of Staff Joshua B. Bolten said. "We're asking Congress and the American people to give the commander-in-chief a chance to try this new plan, which involves forcing his shoulders, torso, arms, and legs through that banister."

Bush's perceived stubbornness and refusal to accept the intractable nature of the problem only further fanned the flames of opposition.

"This administration needs to face the reality that some places are simply too narrow for the president to jam his head into," Newsweek columnist Michael Isikoff said. "President Bush is acting like a small child who, even after doing something terribly ill-advised—namely putting his head in that banister—still refuses to admit any error."

"This whole thing's just incredibly fucking stupid," Isikoff added.

Impossible is Nothing

This is the slogan for the new Adidas ads that have been running lately. The one that gets shown a lot in my market (AZ) is for Gilbert Arenas, who played at the U of A. I kind of like these spots, even though I know they are just a marketing ploy to get kids to buy shoes.

Gilbert Arenas:


David Beckham:


Jonah Lomu:


Yelena Isinbayeva:


There are others at YouTube if you search for "Impossible is Nothing."