tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617569.post113987240645132144..comments2024-03-27T02:13:58.088-07:00Comments on Integral Options Cafe: Further Observations on Integral Relationshipwilliam harrymanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06981478282688361274noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617569.post-20763530319668207942009-11-10T05:16:29.947-07:002009-11-10T05:16:29.947-07:00It is a terrifying sensation to know that you want...It is a terrifying sensation to know that you want something that you consider unusual or 'freakish'. Not every person can be that way all of the time,Phone Sex UKhttp://www.livesexcalls.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617569.post-1139968788987911512006-02-14T18:59:00.000-07:002006-02-14T18:59:00.000-07:00Hi Kai,I wish knew how to make that happen. I'd wr...Hi Kai,<BR/><BR/>I wish knew how to make that happen. I'd write a book, teach workshops, and shout it from rooftops.<BR/><BR/>Mostly I get small tastes of it with Kira--when we are quiet together, when we are on vacation in a new place, or when we make love. I've had enough taste to get the flavor.<BR/><BR/>The one thing I know is that what Piver says is true: <I>"Each time I have opened up, extended myself, accepted what was being offered to me, stepped beyond my comfort zone to embrace him, the structure has been reinforced."</I> All of these examples are ways that she puts aside ego. And I think putting aside ego is the key to feeling that space where love is the container. <BR/><BR/>Obviously, putting aside ego is the hard part. But what you do as practice is a great way to create that space where ego is a voice, not the listener. Any practice that allows us to be fully present can also allow us to put aside the ego. I think it is the Witness, the observing Self, that feels that loving space--and the only way I know to be in the Witness is to not be in the ego.<BR/><BR/>That's all I know, but I am committed to knowing more.<BR/><BR/>Best,<BR/>Billwilliam harrymanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06981478282688361274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13617569.post-1139960857487635232006-02-14T16:47:00.000-07:002006-02-14T16:47:00.000-07:00The woman in me thinking "how beautiful" and the m...The woman in me thinking "how beautiful" and the man in me is thinking "now Bill needs to lay out a prescriptive plan for getting us to that blissful place..."<BR/><BR/>Kai in NYCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com