At this point, my primary concern is her happiness, and I think that Bob (the therapist) can help her with that. I have to trust that she will find her own way through this difficult time in her life. If I am to be a part of that, I would be extremely happy. If not, I have to trust that Bob will help her find a path to her own happiness.
This is challenging for me in so many ways. I am sure I know what the right path is, but there is nothing I can do to make her choose that path.
I'm trying to practice equanimity, but it's hard.